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Soon, the abyss will have a face

While I was watching '12 Years a Slave' last week, I thought about India and the kind of people who want to run it. In the movie, Mr Parker was the man with a conscience, a man who knew right from wrong, as was Samuel Bass who had the sense to be frightened when asked to do the right thing and the sensibility to do it anyway. Watching Mr Parker's face, I thought of the face of the man who will be India's Prime Minister after our May elections. He is everything Mr Parker is not. He has no conscience, only hubris. He has no values, only a thirst for power. He has no idea what to do with power, responsibility is not an adjunct, as far as he is concerned. His face, and oratory, in fact, give him away. The smug delivery and the calculation in his eyes are as terrifying as staring into the abyss. His face is the abyss staring back.

But all that is secondary. What is beyond terrifying is how so many ordinary Indian citizens think this man is the chosen one who will lead India into some kind of superpower status bar none. Who are these people? Do they imagine economics trumps humanity? That a venal man is alright as long as he makes us money? Oh, if only man stopped at that. But think of the scorpion and the frog; a man's nature is All.

In any case, surely we know by now that a superpower status is overrated. Our PM-in-waiting, He Who Must Not be Named, is not the only one who doesn't know what to do with power/responsibility. Exhibit A-Z: Invading countries whose presidents you don't like; sending drones to kill children on their way to school; jailing musicians or boys who love boys. Or murdering those who believe in a different God from yours. That's not being a superpower, that's pure kryptonite.

He Who Must Not Be Named is the chosen one alright, but not in the way people think. He will lead us, as televangelists would say, into damnation and hellfire. We will all become slaves when he takes his throne, perhaps not for 12 years, inshallah, but even five years is a lifetime we will never get back.

But I watched Mr Parker's face for another reason: In every frame of History, there are also men like him in it.

The kind of rake we could go for

I remember seeing Greg Kinnear, really seeing him, in 'As Good As It Gets', a remarkable movie except for making Jack Nicholson a love interest; Jack's a perennial Joker, who would want to kiss that twisted mouth? But Greg, ah, he's another story. Those guileless blue eyes and That twisted mouth is as adorable as it gets. In the new TV series 'Rake', I didn't get what the show was about in the first episode. Keegan Deane is a lawyer with a gambling problem and the only woman he has a long-term relationship with is a prostitute....and so? Then the second episode aired and I was hooked.

Kinnear is a solo treat. You can watch him all day long, it doesn't matter who he's playing off. He has a charm that I want to and can't see in younger, more obvious heart-throbs like Jay Ryan in 'Beauty & the Beast', (which doesn't mean that I don't watch B&B because Ryan's extremely easy on the eyes and I am extremely superficial).

Anyone who's seen Kinnear in 'The Matador' knows what a fine actor he is, too. But also in that second epi, I noticed a yearning in his face when he had his favourite prostitute straddling his lap and I thought: Is SHE a love interest? Now that would be a very interesting spin on relationships which, after watching the movie 'Last Night' an hour ago, I have absolutely no faith in whatsoever. Not that I ever did. What do people mean when they say “I love you, baby”. The minute the going gets tough, it's “Sayonara, baby”. And as I've always bemoaned, the conversation between lovers is stunningly dull; just watch 'Last Night' if you don't believe me. It's always about them. Do you think we got married too young? When did you realise you loved me? I saw the way you were looking at her! But I was feeling bad and you didn't ask me why!........... Sorry, what? I was watching paint dry there. Yes, so if all we can do is appreciate Kinnear as he navigates a fictional life, well, I dunno, might be more satisfaction in that.

Flower Day

Waiting, Waiting

2014:
The Captive Prince 3
JR Ward's The King, although I shall skip every mention of Trez, aka The Big Bore
A definitive black leather jacket a la Rick Owens
Paris & Italy
That risky career change
The latest from Stacia Kane,
Oh, and Terrible in real life.....

One night in Bangalore

Yes, that massive

Never go to a restaurant where a shuffling, badly-dressed man turns out to be the maitre d'. He is Satan ushering you into a hellish experience. The outdoor space is so dark you can't read the menus, so dark that you can easily fall into the wide gaps between slabs on the floor that cover a dank water body. Against your better judgement, you sit and order a starter and a main course. The waiter brings the wrong order. 

When the right main finally arrives, described as a "massive roast chicken" on the menu, it turns out to be a couple of pieces stuck on a skewer. If you ask the waiter what he means by it, the immortal answer is, "There's another piece under the potato, madam." 

Don't, whatever you do, then make the mistake of sampling the piece either over or under anything: It will turn out to be bland, chewy and unidentifiable. Escape before dessert does you in. And pay for the bill with a sinking heart because they wouldn't even have had the decency to either replace your order, or cancel it. C'est la vie. 

At least I'll never go to Indiranagar again.

An Indian story

Dude returns to the Motherland after many years in Amrika, buys a flat, wants to get his driving licence. Goes to the RTO where he's told he needs a doctor's certificate. He asks which is the nearest hospital and everything, life as he knows it even, screeches to a halt.

The silence is pregnant.

He is then slowly told, as though he is a child with special needs, “What do you mean 'Hospital'. There's a man in the building next door who is, of course, a certified physician and he will sign what you need.”

So Dude goes next door. Said physician answers dripping wet from a disturbed shower, towel wrapped around his waist, and waves Dude in. When asked if he can do the needful, physician says Certainly.

“Now tell me, what colour is this pen I'm holding?”

“Red,” Dude says.

“And what colour is the lawn outside?”

“Green,” Dude replies.

“OK, here's the signature. Rs 100.”

Now that he can differentiate between the traffic lights, and how First World and Third World functions, Dude leaves a wiser man; he also knows now why people here drive the way they do.

Christmas candy

The most unusual fragrance of the year, mine, all mine! 

What I spent Xmas day doing, while also reading. Bliss.

All, sometimes, is lost

I spied Sephora in Delhi recently and almost fell to my knees in gratitude. But of course, India being India, (where else do you get no beef at a McDonald's?), it was lacking in the variety which is precisely what Sephora is famous for. Apart from a nod to benefit, Stila had a presence so I bought a token second-choice eyeliner (they didn't have the one I wanted - surprise!) and discovered even OPI had only about 10 colours to choose from. I then sadly tottered towards Starbucks where the appalling decor gave me more of a start than the coffee, and left suddenly after noticing the RiRi Woo poster outside MAC's. Yes, dear Reader, after completing my 100-meter dash there I was told it was out of stock. After which, having lost the will to live, I caught the next flight out.

December 2013, Bangalore

Mr Paul Walker

Flashpoint

Those two dots are the stunned eyes of an owl who has decided to live in the treetops outside the house.